What Could We Do Together That We Could Never Do Alone?
Churches are often better at identifying what they lack than recognizing what they possess.
We do not have enough people.
We do not have enough money.
We do not have the right leaders.
We do not have enough space.
We do not have the experience to address that need.
Those limitations may be real. But they are rarely the whole story.
A church may lack volunteers but have an excellent facility. Another may lack space but have people ready to serve. One church may possess years of trusted community relationships. Another may have financial strength, specialized leadership, or experience in a particular area of ministry.
Individually, each congregation sees a gap. Together, they may discover that God has already provided what is needed.
That leads us to a powerful question:
What could we do together that we could never do alone?
Look Beyond Your Own Capacity
Most churches naturally plan ministry around the resources contained within their congregation. We examine the budget, count available volunteers, consider the building, and then decide what we can do.
That approach is understandable, but it can produce unnecessarily small thinking.
What if we began with the mission instead?
What needs to happen for the gospel to advance in our communities? Where are people being overlooked? Which neighborhoods are changing? Which churches are struggling? Where are new congregations needed? What pastors and ministry leaders need encouragement? What opportunities are sitting in front of us that no single church can pursue effectively?
Once we identify the opportunity, we can ask which churches might contribute the relationships, resources, strengths, or experience needed to address it.
The mission should shape the partnership. The limitations of one congregation should not determine what all of us believe is possible.
Conduct a Kingdom Inventory
Before churches can work together, they must recognize what God has placed in their hands.
In Pathways to Partnership, Mark Hallock and I wrote:
“Every church is unique and brings unique gifts, resources, and passions to the table of partnership.”
That uniqueness is not a barrier to cooperation. It is the reason cooperation can be so powerful.
Consider the resources God has distributed among our churches:
- Members with professional and ministry expertise
- Buildings located in strategic communities
- Relationships with schools, civic leaders, and neighborhood organizations
- Experience in church planting, renewal, missions, and community ministry
- Financial resources that can fund new ministry
- Volunteers who need a meaningful place to serve
- Multilingual and multicultural leaders
- Equipment, vehicles, classrooms, kitchens, and meeting spaces
- Pastors who can coach and encourage other pastors
- Congregations committed to serious, persistent prayer
No church possesses all of these strengths. But nearly every church possesses some of them.
Partnership begins when we stop asking, “Do we have everything required?” and start asking, “What has God given us, and who has He placed around us?”
Relationships Are a Mission Resource
We frequently think of resources as money, property, and people. Relationships are also resources—and often the most important ones.
A church may have a trusted relationship with a local school but lack enough volunteers to serve it well. Another church may have volunteers but no established connection to the school.
One congregation may know a pastor leading a struggling church. Another may have the experience and resources to help but would never have known about the opportunity.
A church may understand the needs of a particular immigrant community. Other congregations may be able to provide funding, facilities, transportation, or children’s ministry support.
Relationships connect strengths with opportunities.
This is one reason associational life matters. The Nashville Baptist Association helps churches know one another well enough to recognize where collaboration is possible. We can identify needs, connect leaders, bring churches into conversation, and help turn a shared concern into coordinated action.
The Association does not replace the ministry of the local church. It helps local churches extend their ministry through relationships with one another.
Partnership Is More Than Financial Support
When churches hear “partnership,” they often assume someone will be asking them for money. Financial support is important, but partnership is far broader.
A church can partner by praying consistently for another congregation. It can send a team to help with children, worship, outreach, administration, or facility improvements. A pastor can coach another pastor. Experienced leaders can help a church think through governance, staffing, finances, or community engagement.
Churches can share equipment, training, curriculum, meeting space, and ministry expertise. They can cooperate in evangelism, disaster response, leadership development, church planting, and church renewal.
Some partnerships may require significant commitments. Others may begin with one relationship and one practical step.
The question is not whether your church can do everything. The question is whether your church can contribute something.
As we wrote in Pathways to Partnership:
“Every partner church has prayers they can pray.”
No church is too small to participate in God’s mission. Every congregation can bring something to the table.
Together, Weakness Does Not Have the Final Word
Churches are not equally strong in every season.
A congregation that needs help today may become a source of strength for another church tomorrow. A church receiving encouragement may eventually encourage others. A renewed church can become a partner in another church’s renewal. A newly planted congregation can grow into a sending church.
Healthy partnership does not divide churches permanently into strong churches and weak churches. It recognizes that we belong to one another and that God works through mutual dependence.
The church that offers volunteers may receive renewed vision. The church that provides funding may discover new opportunities for its members. The church receiving help may remind a larger congregation of the simplicity and power of gospel ministry.
When partnership is healthy, every participant is changed.
Move from Possibility to Conversation
Partnership usually does not begin with a formal agreement. It begins with a conversation.
What opportunities do we see?
What burdens has God placed on our hearts?
What relationships has He already given us?
What strengths could we share?
What could another church contribute that we do not possess?
Where might our combined efforts produce greater gospel impact?
Not every conversation will become a partnership. Not every partnership will be permanent. But we will never discover what is possible if every church remains focused exclusively on its own congregation, calendar, budget, and building.
God has placed more capacity among our churches than any single congregation can see from its own vantage point.
It is time to bring those strengths together.
The opportunity before us is larger than what any one church can accomplish. But it may not be larger than what God can accomplish through churches willing to trust one another, share what they have, and pursue His mission together.
So let’s keep asking the question:
What could we do together that we could never do alone?
Explore the Pathways
In Pathways to Partnership: How You and Your Church Can Join the Replanting Movement, Mark Hallock and I help churches evaluate their readiness, identify what they can contribute, define responsibilities, avoid common partnership problems, and develop relationships that serve God’s mission for the long haul.
The book focuses particularly on partnerships that bring hope and new life to struggling churches, but its central conviction applies much more broadly: God has designed His churches to advance the gospel together.

Bob Bickford
Executive Director
Nashville Baptist Association
